According to a report by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA), although virtually all parents are concerned about the challenges of raising kids in today’s world, many fail to take essential actions to prevent their kids from smoking, drinking or using drugs. The report Identifies 4 characteristics of “Problem Parents:”
Failure to Monitor School Night Socializing
•Nearly one-half (46%) of teens say that they typically go out with friends on school nights, while only 14% of parents say that their teens do so.
•Once out, 53% of teens come home between 8:00 and 10:00 p.m. and 15% come home later.
•The later teens stay out, the more likely they are to use alcohol or other drugs-even among older teens. Nearly one-third (29%) of those who come home between 8:00 and 10:00 p.m. and 50% of those who come home after 10:00 p.m. say there’s alcohol or drug use among the kids they are with.
Failure to Safeguard Prescription Drugs
•One-third of teens who know someone who abuses prescription drugs say that person gets the drugs from parents, home, or medicine cabinets.
Failure to Address Drugs in School
•One-third of parents think that the presence of drugs in school does not make it more likely that their child will use drugs. Yet previous CASA surveys have found that teens attending schools where drugs are used, kept, or sold are 5 times more likely to use marijuana, 15 times more likely to use prescription drugs, and 16 times more likely to use an illegal drug (other than marijuana or prescription drugs).
Failure to Set a Good Example
•One-fourth of all teens know a parent of a classmate or friend who uses marijuana-and 10% say that this parent smokes with people the teens’ age.
The Botvin LifeSkills Training Parent Program can help! The program is designed to help parents strengthen communication with their children and prevent them from using drugs. This powerful prevention tool contains materials and exercises that help parents keep their kids away from threats of tobacco, drugs, and violence. These tools help parents prepare their children for a successful transition from adolescence to early adulthood.